A lot of times, the signs that your boyfriend will propose to you are obvious, but sometimes they aren’t so obvious. Here are 10 signs that your boyfriend will pop the question soon if he hasn’t already!
1) He talks about marriage often
The first thing you should look for is whether or not your man talks about marriage often. Does he share his hopes and dreams of one day getting married? Is it a common topic in his conversations with you and others? If so, it may be a good sign that he’s thinking about it. However, just because he talks about it frequently doesn’t mean he will pop the question soon. There are other signs you need to look for as well.
2) He Wants to Know About Your Future Plans
If your boyfriend is serious about you, he’ll ask you about where you see yourself in five years. If he doesn’t care or doesn’t take an interest in how your life is going, then it may be time to say goodbye. This can also apply if he asks what major you are studying in college and wants your grades—he cares about your future and wants to know that you will be with him for a long time.
3) He Asks You on Dates
People who are serious about their relationships ask their significant others on dates regularly. A date is much more than a fancy dinner and flowers, it’s a time when you and your partner really get to know each other and appreciate what you have together. So if your boyfriend’s never asked you out on a real date (complete with a meal, drink, flowers, and some sort of entertainment) that’s an early sign he’s not truly interested in having a long-term relationship with you.
4) He’s Spending Time with His Family
Although he’s with you all of the time, it might be a good idea to spend some time apart and get to know his family. If he wants you there and is comfortable showing affection in front of them, that’s a great sign. If they approve of you, his family will encourage him to propose. They’ll want what’s best for their son, which includes getting married and starting a family.
5) He Shares Hobbies With You
The best relationships are those in which you share some common interests. If your boyfriend shares your hobbies, you’ll be able to spend a lot of time together—which will naturally lead to more serious thoughts like marriage. It’s important, though, that he doesn’t try too hard—if he feels like his whole world revolves around you, then he might not feel like he has enough space for his own life.
6) He Acts Like a Grownup
Relationships are full of back-and-forth, and while it’s normal for your boyfriend to put you first sometimes (especially when you’re sick or having a bad day) if he isn’t capable of handling adult responsibilities like paying bills or taking care of his own laundry, he might not be ready for marriage. Ask yourself if your man is capable of living on his own; if he seems like a child who still needs his mommy, take a step back.
7) His Friends Think You’re Awesome
If you’re a significant other and all of your boyfriend’s friends are constantly raving about you, he probably sees marriage in your future. Men don’t talk about their relationships as much as women do, so if they like you enough to keep it in-house—you can expect an engagement ring sometime soon. (See how cute he is with his buddies? He may be more than happy to make them uncles.) It helps that guys who have best pals often feel closer to those closest to them than anyone else; such bonds (beyond family) may even breed loyalty, commitment, and responsibility. Getting you into his inner circle means that your man values having access to quality people—and views you as one of them.
8) He Likes Watching Romantic Movies with You
He’s willing to sit through a sappy romantic movie with you because he wants to see your reaction. Plus, it means he gets close enough to smell your hair. If that doesn’t scream true love, we don’t know what does. If you both enjoy romance movies, watch one together and pay attention to a few signs of long-term commitment; if he hasn’t proposed after date three or four, it might be time to move on.
9) He Tells People That He Loves You
This one might sound a little silly, but I’m willing to bet that even if you’re not engaged or living together, your boyfriend has told some people that he loves you. If he hasn’t yet and it’s been a while, keep an eye out for him letting people know about his feelings for you. Not only does telling others to demonstrate how serious he is about you, but it can also be a sign of confidence in your relationship—even if he isn’t ready to pop the question just yet. And hey, you could always ask him why he thinks telling other people is important. After all, getting personal is what building trust and intimacy are all about!
10) He Takes Care of You (When Sick, etc.)
No guy should ever have to worry about his girl, especially when she’s ill. In addition to taking you in his arms and giving you a kiss when you don’t feel well, your boyfriend will also take care of all kinds of other responsibilities that come with being in a relationship. If he helps out with any kind of housework or financial chores like paying bills and buying groceries, it could be an indication that he is ready for marriage.
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