Learn how to approach and seduce any woman you want by following these 10 techniques. The more approaches you make, the more confident you will become, and the easier it will be to seduce that hot girl you always saw but never had the courage to talk to. These techniques are broken down into 3 main categories: physical, verbal, and non-verbal approaches. Try each of them at least once to see which one works best for you! Good luck!
1) Assess the situation
Before approaching a hot girl, take a minute to look her over. Assess her body language; are you interrupting her conversation? Is she reading a book or studying for an exam? If so, it might be best to come back another time. After all, if she’s focused on something else right now, she’s probably not thinking about meeting men and therefore isn’t likely to be receptive to your advances.
2) Make your intentions clear
Whether you’re trying to start a romantic relationship, have a one-night stand, or just looking for some fun, it’s best to be upfront with your intentions. When you first see a girl you like, tell her. You don’t need to come out and say hey baby I want to f*ck you later tonight but be sure she knows that you are interested in her sexually, not just as a friend.
3) Understand her lack of interest
You’re in a bar, and you see a hot girl. Chances are she sees you too and is busy making up excuses to avoid talking to you. But she might just be shy—not interested—so don’t give up so quickly. Sometimes women just need a bit of time to warm up, but that doesn’t mean they aren’t attracted. Be patient, good things come to those who wait!
4) Don’t be offended when rejected
Rejection is a part of dating. Rejection, in any form, can hurt, but you shouldn’t be so afraid of it that you never try to meet new people. The more times you put yourself out there and are rejected, the more likely you are to succeed; rejection builds strength and courage. It doesn’t matter if you get rejected—all that matters is how quickly you bounce back from it and how willing you are to continue trying. The person who tries 10 times after getting rejected nine has a much better chance of succeeding than someone who only tries once after being rejected eight times. Keep trying—and keep going at it—until your number comes up!
5) Compliment Her
Chances are that, if you’re trying to pick up a hot girl, she already has an admirer or two. If they’re giving her compliments, it might be difficult for you to get her attention and make yourself stand out. Try approaching her with a compliment of your own: I don’t normally do this, but I have to tell you that you look really amazing today. 60 Super Sweet Compliments for Women
6) Smile, but don’t stare
Smiling is a great way to approach a hot girl, but you don’t want to overdo it. If you notice that she’s smiling at you, that’s your cue to smile back. Then, once she smiles, look away and begin making conversation. Staring at her will probably just make her uncomfortable.
7) Ignore Her Friends
As a general rule, you should ignore her friends. There’s no reason to go trying to engage them in conversation because there’s really nothing for you to gain from it. Her friends are there for her, not you—and if she has any doubts about whether or not she wants to be talking with you, then having one of her girlfriends whispering in her ear isn’t going to help your cause at all.
8) Look Her in the Eyes when Talking
Eye contact is one of many attraction signals. Since flirting is basically a conversation, eye contact can help you build rapport with your potential partner. When you look her in the eyes while talking to her, she’ll notice that you’re interested in what she has to say and feel more connected to you as a result. Also, if you don’t make eye contact while talking to a girl, it can signal disinterest and lack of confidence.
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9) Be Clear About Your Intentions
Before you approach her, be crystal clear about your intentions—and I don’t mean that in a sleazy way. Make sure she knows you’re interested in just talking to her, not trying to get into her pants (at least not at first). Remember: Most women are just as nervous approaching strange men as we are approaching them.
10) Follow up with her later on
Be prepared to follow up with her later on. For example, if you get her number, text her a few days later and ask how she is or what she's been up to. She'll notice that you are interested in her and your intentions will be clear. If things go well during your initial interaction, continue pursuing her. If they don't, use it as a learning experience and try again with someone else. There will always be other girls who are available!
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