Relationship Advise

After an affair, it’s common to wonder if you can make your relationship work. You may love your partner, and you may want to try to repair the damage that was done by the affair and move forward in the marriage or committed relationship. But can cheating really be overcome? Here are some considerations on whether or not you can work through an affair and rebuild trust in your relationship. Yes, if both people are willing to forgive It may sound like an unlikely scenario, but it is possible to salvage a relationship even if one or both partners have strayed from their commitment to their partner. Couples counseling can help you and your partner get back on track after an affair; however, there are no guarantees that everything will be 100% smooth sailing afterward. The success of your relationship depends largely on how willing you and your partner are to forgive and move forward together. You should not be afraid to leave an unfaithful partner because people deserve second chances. Th...

  If you’re thinking about moving in with your partner, you may be wondering how to know if you’re ready to take the plunge. Moving in together has its benefits—you get to save money on rent, plus it gives you and your partner more time together—but there are also some things to consider before you sign that lease together. Here are 10 signs that indicate you’re ready to move in with your partner 1) Feeling ready One of the biggest signs that you’re ready to move in with your partner is whether or not you feel prepared for it. If you’ve decided that it’s a good idea and that neither of you wants to back out, then you should be feeling pretty confident about moving forward. 2) You talk about being together long term If you talk about your relationship in terms of us and we instead of individually, it might be a sign that you're ready to live together. Are you saying things like, If we move in together or Once we get married? These kinds of statements are clear indicators that living...

  It’s no secret that dating can be difficult. The social pressure that puts on men to act a certain way or to achieve certain status can make it hard to connect with people and build meaningful relationships. If you’re looking for advice on how to improve your dating skills, here are 10 reasons why dating is hard for guys, as well as some tips on how to overcome them and reach your dating goals. 1) Being picky It’s no secret that women have it a lot easier when it comes to dating. A large number of men are willing to date them, meaning they have their pick of men. Unfortunately, men do not get to be picky in the same way that women can—especially if they want a girlfriend who has similar interests and is on their level emotionally and intellectually. In order for guys to date successfully, they need to let go of any preconceived notions about who they think they should date. 2) Men have higher standards If a man is asked out on a date, he’s expected to be a certain height, have ce...

Dating apps have had their ups and downs, but with so many to choose from, it’s pretty easy to find one that matches your personality, lifestyle, and even physical location (if you want to get really specific). The idea behind dating apps is really simple – you create an account on the app of your choice and start browsing through other people’s profiles; if you like someone, you swipe right on their picture; if not, swipe left. Tips for Getting Approved Like other dating apps, you’ll need to find someone willing to approve your profile before you can begin sending and receiving messages. (Bumble women always make the first move.) To increase your chances of getting approved—and get more matches—try answering these questions in a way that highlights your personality, not your last job title. Here are some tips for spicing up your bio ● Make it clear what type of relationship you’re looking for right off the bat. I like my relationships with men to be as straightforward as possible, so ...

It’s well known that depression can come from feeling lonely, but what about when the loneliness isn’t yours? When you’re dating, whether it’s casually or seriously, you can find yourself in situations where you feel left out, rejected, or lonely despite being in a relationship. Dating makes you feel depressed because of three reasons: low self-esteem, lack of communication, and unreasonable expectations. If you can fix these issues, you won’t have to deal with dating-related depression anymore! 1) Checking your phone all the time If you’re dating and spending a lot of time with someone, it’s inevitable that you two will text each other. The problem is that our phones can pull us away from enjoying real-life experiences and conversations with friends. If you find yourself checking your phone all too often while on a date, stop! Put your phone down and spend some quality time with your special someone instead. It’ll be worth it when you look back on your relationship later. Remember t...

While there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to making yourself more attractive, there are some important things you can do that will help you improve your appearance and feel better about yourself. Here are ten of the most important things you can do to make yourself more attractive, with tips on how to implement them in your life today. Know how to dress yourself Fit and fashion go hand in hand, but you don’t have to have a personal shopper in order to look great. If you want that beautiful body you’ve always wanted, start dressing for it. It doesn’t take a lot of money or even time to find what works for your body type—it just takes an open mind and willingness to experiment. This may be as simple as trying new brands at a local boutique, or going with classic pieces that can work season after season. Best of all? You can score major style points without breaking your budget. This may be as simple as trying new brands at a local boutique, or going with classic pieces that can work se...

If you’re going through a breakup and wish to get your ex back, it can be tempting to try anything to change their mind about the breakup, from sweetly asking if you can take them out on another date to calling them at all hours of the night pleading and crying that you’ll change everything about yourself so they won’t leave you. While these tactics might not get your ex back immediately, they will almost certainly backfire in the long run. To get your ex back and ensure that the relationship doesn’t end up failing again, do this instead... 1) Be genuine When you’re trying to get back together with an ex, there’s a fine line between being too aggressive and too passive. Make sure you don’t cross it by coming off as desperate or clingy. Instead, play it cool. If your ex brings up their relationship status, respond thoughtfully, even if you still have strong feelings for them—after all, you don’t want them getting the wrong idea. You may also want to consider reaching out subtly on socia...