No matter how well you get along with your partner, there will always be times when they’re just not making you happy. Whether they can’t stop playing video games or they keep forgetting to take out the trash, sometimes it feels like they just don’t care about you like you do them. This can really hurt your feelings and make you want to break up with them... but resist the urge! They may seem ungrateful now, but if you follow these 7 tips for treating your partner like royalty, you may just find that they become more appreciative of what you have to offer.
1) Compliment your partner
Compliment your partner often, but don’t expect anything in return. Praise your partner publicly and privately. Not only will your compliments make him or her feel more loved, but it will make you seem chivalrous, too. Anyone would be lucky to have you! Gift-giving: Surprise your significant other with gifts—it doesn’t have to be anything huge; inexpensive gifts are appreciated just as much as big ones. Just look at what they enjoy, whether that’s biking, running, painting—whatever it is—and find an accessory for their hobby that shows you took an interest in them beyond just spending time together.
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2) Appreciate every single thing they do
It may sound simple, but communicating gratitude is one of the best ways to make your partner feel like you care. They’ll appreciate knowing you recognize their hard work and efforts, even if it’s something as small as cooking dinner. In fact, studies show people who receive gratitude are more likely to help others in need. So always take time to thank your partner for doing things around the house—even when they might seem mundane or part of their job description. Then be sure to show your appreciation by helping them out with household chores when they least expect it.
3) Show an interest in their day
The thing about love is that it’s not one-sided. It takes two to tango, and you need to make sure your partner feels appreciated, loved, and special. The easiest way to do that? Ask them about their day! Take an interest in their professional life, get excited over their work successes and commiserate when they face difficulties at work. In other words: When they come home from work, ask them how their day was. When you talk to them on Skype, look interested when they tell you about their latest project. By doing these things—which seem small but can have a huge impact—you will make your partner feel treasured and cared for.
4) Think about what makes them happy
Every relationship has its ups and downs, but it’s important to remember what you love about your partner. If you take a moment to reflect on how they make you feel and why you love them, it will remind you of all of their positive qualities. It could be something as simple as how much they listen to your problems and make you feel validated. Even if things are rocky right now, don’t focus on that—focus on what made it work in the first place.
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5) Do something nice every day
This one sounds silly, but it’s actually really important. Show your partner that you care with small acts of kindness—and don’t be afraid to go overboard. Make breakfast in bed; send flowers; pick up their favorite candy bar from work; leave sweet notes on their pillow in the morning; write them love songs...the possibilities are endless! In no time, they’ll start craving your attention and gifts even more than before. Just remember: Don’t try too hard!
6) Tell them why you love them
It’s important to tell your partner that you love them at least once per day. When they know how much you love them, they’ll feel more confident and secure in your relationship. Every couple needs to hear I love you as often as possible, so it’s worth keeping track of how often each of you say it—and making sure both partners are using their words!
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Make sure to end each day by verbalizing your appreciation of your partner. When you come home from work, sit down and have a chat with your partner about what was happening that day. Inquire about how their day went. Thank them for coming home at night, giving them space to unwind after a long day at work. Tell them how much they mean to you and how good it feels when they’re around you. Compliment them on everything they did throughout their day; thank them for working hard while you were off relaxing during theirs. If possible, give little gifts as well—it will make their heart feel warm knowing just how much they mean to you.
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