How can you tell if your girlfriend or wife truly loves you and not just your money? Many wealthy men have struggled with this question, but you don’t have to be one of them. Follow these tips and advice from experts on how to know if she loves you or just your money.
1) Do You Talk About the Future?
When you’re in a relationship with someone, it’s always important to ask yourself whether your partner talks about his/her future with you. If she does—even vaguely—that’s a good sign that she loves you for who you are, not your money. It is also an indication that she wants things to work out between you two because if there’s one thing most women want more than anything else, it is stability in their relationships.
2) Is She Excited for Your Future?
Does she seem excited for your future? If you’re looking forward to taking a trip abroad, does she talk about how much fun it will be and ask questions about what you’ll do while you’re there? If you tell her that you just got a promotion at work, does she congratulate you and make plans with your new salary in mind? If not, then she may not really love all of who you are—she might just love your money.
3) Does She Contribute Herself?
If she’s contributing her time, knowledge, and energy into your relationship instead of just taking from it, she could be in it for more than just what you have. Whether that’s money or love, you need a woman who is actively participating in your relationship rather than passively observing it. Don’t settle for someone who won’t bother to put forth any effort—it means that she has no interest in being there for you.
4) Does she tell you how much she cares?
If a woman says she loves you, but never shows it, there’s little you can do. The best thing you can do is tell her how much you love her back and show it. If she cares about her looks, take her out for dinner and compliments on how pretty she looks (and mean it). If she’s your best friend in every sense of the word, spend time with her doing what she loves.
5) Does she want to keep learning about you?
As humans, we tend to value our own lives and experiences more than those of others. People who appreciate you for who you are—and not for what you have—want to learn more about your history, your interests, and your passions. If a woman doesn’t want to learn about what makes you tick, it could be a red flag that she only wants a piece of your fortune.
6) Does she express her feelings?
Is she in love with you for your personality, your humor, and the way you make her feel? Or is she merely dazzled by your material possessions? Women don’t usually express their feelings as straightforwardly as men do. Her words are not always a good gauge of how she really feels about you. If a woman only says I love you and never mentions any other aspects of her feelings for you, then it’s possible that she doesn’t know how else to express herself.
7) Are her words consistent with her actions?
If you’re looking for a relationship that lasts, then it’s important to pay attention to actions and not just words. Women who have nothing but nice things to say about their partners are lying; they could be manipulating you into believing they love you just so that they can secure your money. True relationships aren’t based on money; pay attention when she says she loves spending time with you but ignores your presence in her life.
8) Do you see each other as equals, or does it seem like she looks down on you?
One sure sign of love is how you treat each other. Do you value one another’s opinions, or do you only listen when it’s convenient? Real love sees both people as equals. If she treats you as her superior, she may love your money and prestige more than your personality. A girl who loves you for who you are will recognize that she has plenty to learn from you.
9) Do your friends get along with her friends?
If your friends get along with her friends and vice versa, she’s probably not using you for your money. A woman who loves you won’t want a break from hanging out with your social circle—she wants them in hers. If you have a lot of mutual friends, it makes sense that they all like each other. If you don’t have any mutual friends, however, that might be cause for concern.
10) Has She Accepted Who You Are?
When you’re in a relationship, you may have someone who loves your money but not you. The best way to find out is by asking her questions about who you are as a person and letting her know that there’s no need for secrets between two people in love. If she accepts you and all of your flaws, then it’s possible she truly cares about you. If she makes excuses for why certain things are okay with her when they wouldn’t be okay with other men in your life, then it may be time to let go of your hopes that she ever cared about who you really were. It’s not fair to either of you when one partner likes another side of themselves more than they like their significant other.
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