Crushes can be confusing and scary, even if you’re pretty sure the person likes you back, but aren’t positive how to tell them how you feel. The easiest way to get your crush to fall in love with you is by letting them know exactly how you feel – say these seven things to your crush and she’ll be head over heels in love before you know it!
Tell Her How Good She Looks
You can’t expect your crush to love you back if she doesn’t feel special. Look at her, compliment what she is wearing, and ask how she feels. It might seem too forward at first, but showing interest in small talk is a way for people to tell you they are interested in more than just passing time with each other. If your crush likes talking with you and wants to keep it going longer than just a few minutes of light banter, chances are good she likes being around you. When women like men, they typically want to spend more time together. This means you’re on track toward making a connection.
Flirt With Her
Flirting is a good way to get a girl’s attention, but it’s an even better way to keep it. Girls are notorious for playing hard-to-get and it can be difficult to know what you should talk about with your girl when you don’t really know her. To avoid being stumped by those silences, try flirting with her! It will help keep the conversation going and she’ll like talking to you because of it. You never know: Maybe she likes talking to you because of it too. 😉 So what if she doesn’t? At least you tried something! Everyone loves a man who makes an effort to flirt in order to keep things interesting. Just remember not to go overboard—in fact, if your approach is working right, no one around should even notice...unless they have eyes in their head. 😛
Compliment Her Intelligence
We all have a friend who gives us unsolicited advice on our appearance and other aspects of our lives. Complimenting a woman’s intelligence is a great way to win over her heart without feeling like you’re being too forward. Women want men who aren’t afraid to open up about their feelings but be careful not to come across as overly sensitive. Instead, frame compliments around how she makes you feel smart by allowing you into different worlds or by letting you share in her interests.
Tell Her You Love Her Smile
You’ve got to open yourself up and tell her how you feel. You can start by telling her she has a great smile, or find some way of complimenting one of her most positive qualities. Girls really do enjoy being told that they’re pretty, smart, or have a great personality. Tell Her She Has A Great Personality: If she doesn’t know what it is about herself that makes you like her so much, maybe it’s time for a talk. Guys sometimes don’t realize how important personality is to girls—most of us aren’t used to having someone be interested in our personalities! Ask her questions about herself, show interest in what she likes doing, and definitely don’t lie! It doesn’t matter if you think something sounds boring; don’t try to make yourself seem more interesting than she is—she probably won’t appreciate it.
Compliment Her Personality
One of the best ways to compliment a girl is by focusing on her personality. The most attractive quality in a person is their sense of humor, so start off by telling your crush something funny or witty she did or said. Not only does she feel flattered, but if you say it out loud in front of other people she knows and likes, it might cause them to talk about it later—and she’ll know you are well-liked within her social circle. If you do want to compliment her looks, stick with things like I really like your hair! instead of saying something like: Your eyes are so bright they shine when they catch mine! If you try too hard, she might think you have ulterior motives. Saying that specific detail in front of others could lead them to believe it as well.
Compliment Her Work
Complimenting a woman’s work is one of the easiest ways to get her attention and admiration. Show her you understand what she does, and she’ll be more likely to know what makes you tick. If she knows what impresses you, it also gives her something else to talk about—which means more opportunities for getting closer and becoming friends. So when you first start talking with her, share some tidbits on how much you respect what she does; then ask her questions about herself. In other words: Be interested in her.
Don’t Ask Permission - Just Go For It!
It’s a good idea to practice a bit before going for it, but in most cases, it’s best not to ask permission. Even if she says no, you haven’t invested much and can easily try again in another situation. No harm done either way! The key is to try before getting too emotionally invested in any particular outcome. Once you get rejected, don’t beat yourself up about it. It happens! Just move on to try someone else or another situation. You’ll do better next time! Some people tend to be less comfortable with rejection than others. If you are a sensitive soul, it might be wise to test out new lines/approaches beforehand just so you know what works (and what doesn’t). Oftentimes people like persistence and confidence. You could always start by asking if she likes flowers and go from there...
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