If you have never talked to a girl before, you may be nervous or anxious about it. But talking to girls can actually be really fun and enjoyable if you have the right approach! With these 10 tips to build confidence and talk to a girl, you’ll be able to ask her out easily without worrying about what she will say in response.
1) Do Something New
Most people are so afraid of rejection that they don’t even try because of fear of failure. Learning how to build confidence when talking to a girl is all about experimenting with yourself by doing new things. In doing new things, you learn not only that you can do it, but also learning your new normal – what is acceptable behavior and what is out of your comfort zone. Everyone has different boundaries and limits, but sometimes we need exposure in order to learn what those boundaries really are.
2) Challenge Yourself
When you feel nervous about talking to a girl, remember that there’s really nothing to be afraid of. She’s just another person—she can’t read your mind or judge you without getting to know you. You just have to challenge yourself, get out of your comfort zone, and talk. And when she replies, respond in an honest way, like you would with any other conversation. Talking isn’t so scary once you do it!
3) Talk to People You Like
Talking with people you like will give you confidence and make it easier for you to talk to girls. Start by getting in conversations with co-workers, then start talking more with your friends, family members, or anyone else you feel comfortable talking with. The better you get at having conversations, the more you’ll realize how much fun they can be—and how easy it is to talk to people once you know what things interest them.
4) Set Goals
Real confidence comes from setting goals and achieving them. And if you want to talk to that girl, why not set a goal of talking to her by week’s end? Once you have that date on your calendar, you can feel confident that it will happen—because it’s been planned out. The same applies to any goal: Set your objective and work towards achieving it. You’ll feel more capable than you ever imagined.
5) Look Good, Feel Good
People tend to feel more confident when they look good. Paying attention to your appearance—both inside and out—can build your confidence. Make sure you’re dressing appropriately for each occasion (no matter how informal), make sure your hair is styled, and wear makeup if that’s something you want to do. It doesn’t take much; if it makes you feel better, go for it!
6) Ask For Help
Sometimes we think that something is just too hard for us, but other people around us can find it very easily. Find someone you trust who knows how to talk to girls and ask them how they’d start talking with her. They will also be able to give you valuable feedback on what worked for them in order for you to use their advice as well as your own knowledge of what will work for you.
7) Practice in Front of the Mirror
In order to talk to a girl, you need your nerves settled. And if you can’t talk in front of a mirror, how are you ever going to be able to do it in public? Being comfortable talking by yourself will help you build up confidence. Just try talking about something that makes you feel confident or passionate. You can also visualize success; think about how great it will feel when she responds positively.
8) Workout Regularly
Working out is known to reduce stress, which can hamper your self-confidence. A healthy body will feel good, too. Plus, when you feel good in your skin, you’ll be more confident interacting with others. Make time for a consistent workout routine—at least four times per week for 30 minutes each session. You could try running or hiking, or strength training at home. If you need some extra inspiration, there are lots of free resources online or classes through local gyms that offer group exercise opportunities (think: yoga). Additionally, some men find that regular beard maintenance makes them look—and feel—better overall.
9) Stand Tall And Smile Often
Looking confident is key in gaining confidence. Slouching, not making eye contact, or otherwise appearing shy will make people question your confidence. Try standing up straight with shoulders back and head held high. It may seem a little forced at first but you’ll get used to it—and when you do, you’ll feel more confident too! Smiling also helps reduce stress levels and body language cues perceived by others can help show them that you’re feeling more confident than you actually are!
10) Don’t Over Think It
According to award-winning pickup artist David Wygant, one of the worst things you can do when it comes to talking to women is overthinking everything. Don’t overthink everything, Wygant says. It’s a biological thing – she feels your nervousness. If you feel too nervous or anxious at that moment when you see her, then it shows. So don’t worry about being perfect; just relax.
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Here are some tips that have helped me become more confident and talk to people without being shy. When you will know about the things that I will share with you, you won't be afraid or shy, no matter if you are speaking in public or speaking to your crush.
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