Talking to your crush can be nerve-wracking, but if you know what to say and how to say it, you’ll find that your crush will start having feelings for you before you know it. Here are 7 ways to talk to your crush and get them to fall for you.
How to Talk to Your Crush
Ask Them Out. Don’t be shy! If you want your crush to fall in love with you, ask them out—or at least try. Your intentions needn’t be romantic; it could simply be a coffee date or another casual activity. Asking someone out is a great way to connect on an informal level with someone you care about. When they realize that they can have fun being around you, they might just think of you as more than a friend... which is what every girl wants!
What To Do If They Like You Back
Okay, so let’s say you’ve found someone special and they like you back. Great! But that doesn’t mean it will all go smoothly. It can still be pretty nerve-wracking talking to a crush, especially if it’s been a while since you’ve had one. What do you do? Well, there are some basic things you should always keep in mind: Be yourself and enjoy every minute of flirting with each other. When we start second-guessing ourselves or doing silly things to try to impress our crushes, we often end up making an idiot out of ourselves instead.
How To Know When He/She Likes You Back
When someone likes you, they’ll typically show it in one of three ways: by asking you out on a date, flirting with you, or sending subtle I like you signals. If someone sends these signals—which include being attentive, listening attentively, and looking into your eyes when talking—chances are he/she has a genuine interest in getting to know you better. However, if only one of these things happens, don’t jump to conclusions; maybe he/she is just feeling friendly that day. The best way to be sure is to ask him/her outright what his/her intentions are toward you. Chances are, he/she will be flattered by your directness! (This actually works!)
Ways To Make Them Laugh
Nothing is more attractive than a sense of humor. So if you can make your crush laugh, then we're pretty sure that's an automatic ticket into their heart. If a funny joke or cute prank will set off their laughter, do it! It's one way of letting them know that you appreciate his/her sense of humor. Alternatively, you can try being humorous during light-hearted conversations with him/her; some topics may include fun facts about animals, people, or celebrities that he/she loves.
Make Them Feel Important
Everyone wants to feel special, but not everyone is bold enough to ask for it. To make someone feel important, make an effort to treat them as though they are. This doesn’t mean fawning over every one of their words or indulging in every one of their whims; it simply means recognizing that they have something important to say. Don’t be afraid to interrupt a conversation with a friend if your partner has something worthwhile to contribute. Pay attention when people ask you questions—try not to dismiss what they have to say because it might be difficult or inconvenient for you.
The Best Way To Ask Them Out
If your life was a rom-com, they’d be swept off their feet by how assertive you are. But in real life? Not so much. This is why we recommend approaching an object of affection with caution. Don’t just go straight up and ask them out—it can feel like pressure. Instead, try leading into it: During the conversation, casually mention something you both like (e.g., hiking or rock climbing) or discuss something funny that happened to you guys (e.g., embarrassing date stories). When it comes time to part ways, say something like I had fun tonight; let’s do [activity] again soon!
Keep The Conversation Going
The single biggest mistake people make when trying to start a conversation with someone they like is that they take what might have been a great exchange and turn it into an awkward silence. To keep things natural, it’s important to keep talking even if nothing is being said. And if at first, it feels as though there’s no connection or chemistry between you two—keep going anyway. It just might work out in your favor. And don’t forget to pay attention; using eye contact can help too!
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